Archive for September 25th, 2007

About a year ago I decided it would be helpful to have a physical identifying bond with W. It was something that I hoped would help him recognize me spiritually beyond the time he forgets me physically. The day is coming from what I understand, that Alzheimer’s patients eventually do not recognize family members and friends.

One night as we talked in bed, I suggested a “secret code” only he and I would know. Explained it was for coming out of anesthetic or if one were knocked unconscious, for example. I understand those were not good examples but they worked for my purposes of setting up the code.

So we agreed on a physical touching “code” and every night since, while telling him I love him, use the code. He would respond likewise.

Last night he tried coding as we said good night and he wasn’t able to.

Hopefully he will remember my touch.