Archive for September 29th, 2007

So we emptied the sideboard and put the stuff on tables in the living room. There’s going to be a change – I use maybe 10% of this stuff. Anyway, big job.

While I’m in the shower, W moved all the stuff to the love seat and sofa. He was calmly sitting with his book and announced that moving this stuff is too much work and we’re not doing it again.

I guess the look of astonishment on my face didn’t register:) We moved it all back to the 2 tables as if nothing happened. He resumed reading and I ran to the bathroom and had a good cry – then realized he could be moving it all again – cry over – out to guard my stuff, ha,ha. Sure hope he doesn’t slip out in the night and do it all over again.

It’s difficult to watch Dad decline – I hear it in their voices as we talk. Today, Computer son and I were having a great phone visit and the conversation came around to care for Dad and respite for me (or is it vice versa:)? Anyway, after the renos are complete and Christmas has come and gone, Mom gets serious about 4 hours 2 times a week. To start.

He had a good point that it’s probably good for Dad, also, as long as he’s comfortable with the person. Go for walks, the library, coffee or just sit and talk.

I love taking him places and roaring around but it’s time for some “me” time. This is not going to be easy the first time. Any suggestions?