We were standing in line at the grocery, our order being rung in, when he turned to the “person” behind him and asked if she wanted to go ahead of us. (She had 2 bags of chips and 2 large pop in hand) Of course, it was not possible but it was his gesture of kindness which counted.
“No,” very sarcastically spoken with a look of total disdain, her mouth curled in a cruel smirk. She continued to stare at him til we paid for our order. Her countenance said “I can’t believe what I’m seeing” sort of look. Thank the good Lord he was oblivious as now had his back to her again.
Fury and fire surged thru my body, the cruelty of a rude young twirp about 30 years of age, dressed to pretend she was still 16, a roll of fat over her low slung jeans with cheap silver – studded plastic belt.
I told him to stay with Brenda for a moment (our neighbor) and followed the rude young lady out of the store. “Excuse me.” Her reply was ice, “Yes?”
“I have to apologize that my husband bothered you. You see his brain is diseased, he has Alzheimer’s but he still manages to delve deep into it to offer you kindness and courtesy which you have yet to develop in your 40 some years.”
“I am not 40!”
Justice for all, I thought, as I turned and walked back to the store – smirking to myself.
People like that have developed no emotional maturity are are unlikely to do so. Good for you for trying to educate her.
Just remember the kind young woman from the other post when you run into jerks like this.
You made me laugh this morning, Jean. What a fabulous dig!
Oh, you go Jean–a double whammy! Every now and then it’s good to rip one.
I feel like writing an apology to my readers. People who know me will be surprised.Most often, I just say, “It’s not worth it.”
What really made me furious is her sneer, yes, not a smirk, a sneer. She held that contemptuous look all the while, eying him in disdain.
I should have been more kind and “educated” her but I was not feeling kind at that moment.
I think what you did was wonderful…
it was you love of him, that made you do it and I think it was wonderful…
Touche!
Atta girl, Jean! Didn’t that feel just wonderful? You did it for him. I’m proud of you.