Archive for June 11th, 2008

I missed his being with me today but also was very grateful to be able to “zip” from store to store, heavens, from aisle to aisle.

After all the shopping was done, I had 20 minutes before I had to be home. Luckily, I had a novel in my car. I bought a coffee and sat in the shade and read. Next time I’ll set my cell phone to ring as was constantly looking at my watch. They stress the importance of being home on time.

When I arrived, she cheerily told me I was 15 minutes early.What!!! In effect I wasted 35 errand minutes. Didn’t realize her shift was 11:15 to 3:15pm – I thought she was late this morning. (I had been told 11 – 3)

Got all his Father’s Day gifts, a few groceries, a coffee, quick visit with my sister.

He does not remember her being here.

The only thing I asked of home care when the RN visited was to have Wayne taken for a walk sometime during the visit, no dusting,etc.

It was kind of cute listening to her recount the day and the walk. “Your roads are hilly here, hills that are easy to walk down but not easy to walk back up!”

She said they came home and Wayne dozed off in his chair while she struggled to stay awake. I loved her honesty.

Left a tray our with tea, muffins, jam, etc. She thanked me. I asked if there were anything else I could do to make her visit more comfortable. She assured me that was totally unexpected – most people don’t offer anything. I thought that was sad – after all, we want everyone happy.

A lovely home care aid arrived with a friendly smile – Wayne hung her coat up in the closet. We exchanged a few pleasantries and I told him I’d see him in a few hours. He hugged me good by and was content.

Arrived home to see the 2 of them chatting over muffins and coffee.

Bless you, dear HCA for your kindness.