29th August
2008
Yesterday, realized that I walk behind Wayne and just softly touch his back (just below his belt) to guide him in the correct direction. It’s inoffensive (I think) and hopefully not noticeable to others.
Even in our home as we go down the hall, he often needs help to get to the correct room.
We’ve always been “touchy, feely” so my putting a hand or a few fingers on his back doesn’t offend.
(Maybe this would work if your loved one needs prompting.)
You think of things I never would. I’d probably lay my whole hand on mr. kenju and prod him down the hallway. It would never occur to me that it might be offensive, and I would see it as help or as something that had to be done.
Yeah, but Judy, I’ve
been at this job or journey for many years:)