31st May
2009
Forgot to mention that he is doing really well “one on one” with day care. The aide takes him walking if he decides “he’s going for a walk”.
He likes the physical games but soon as he is not busy, he’s telling them he’ll just go for a walk. I offered to keep him home but I guess the bags under my eyes suggested he attend:) Actually, they are arranging for 2 days per week as feel he should socialize more but mercy, the drop off is difficult – for both of us. Last week we were 10 minutes in the parking lot before I got him in the door. I have to say those ladies and guys are really terrific and treat everyone like family.
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I am truly impressed with your reports of loving care you have found.
The U.S. could certainly learn a lot from how you our northern neighbors do things.
Thanks, Donna. We have never had a complaint. When we needed Mri’s and scans, he was called in very short time.Hope plans are going well for you and your daughter.
It must be a relief to know they are so “on top” of things there. And I haven’t seen the bags under your eyes, but you surely need a break. Hopefully you’re able to relax a little each time. Love, Annette
I agree with KGMom, your reports of the loving health care he is receiving is a blessing. I do think the Adult Day care centers are loving but they are not govt run and you have to pay dearly for people to go to them. My mother was treated fine in the nursing home, but then she was still pretty much with it, now on the other hand my mother in law…won’t go there. Do know you are blessed he receives such tender care. Even though you have the hassle of getting him to go inside, please let him go two days a week…you need the time and he does enjoy it once he gets inside…so it is good for both of you. blessings on your week….Mary Lou
Thank God for the Adult day care. Is there any way they can see you arrive and assist in any way from the parking lot?
You need a deep breath, and a hot cup of tea, and pursue an interest that revives you during your brief, free time.
Your care, your love, your commitment is such a testimony to who you are.
I agree with corgidogmama totally. You have to get that time for yourself, can they help you get him out of the car?
I know of someone who solved this problem by having someone else provide the transportation from home to day care.
I’m glad he’s willing to go to the day program, and I hope it brings you the rest you need! My Dad was diagnosed with early onset dementia, and we have tried three day programs for him. But he was so bored and discontented in them all that he either walked out of or was kicked out of them. Since then we’ve altered our school and work schedules to care for him at home, which as any caregiver knows, can take an extreme toll, especially when care is needed 24 hours a day, seven days a week. On another topic, if I may ask, have you found any other spousal caregivers out there who you can lean on for support? That’s one big problem my Mom has had here; even the caregiver’s support group she attends has only people who are caring for their parents, so she feels quite alone.