When the sky fell a few years ago, we never did ask, “Why us?” Actually, we would say, “Why not us?”
Alzheimer’s is a robber and it robs all friends and family members. As difficult as it has been to deal with and accept our journey, it has also allowed us many, many blessings.
We have a richness of loving family members, terrific friends, wonderful medical/dental people. There are bloggers who are like close friends – we just haven’t met in person - yet. I could go on and on. Looking at our life, we also have learned others are in much worse shape.
Also, if a couple has to deal with Alzheimer’s, better Wayne and I who love each other and are patient and kind. I’d sure hate to see it befall a couple who are in distress already. Man, that would be so difficult as one has to be very patient and bite one’s tongue many times a day.
So when I write about daily happenings, I write to tell the story of our journey. It’s not to make anyone feel badly or anything like that. Could always be worse. All I ask is you hug your spouse a little tighter and love each other a little harder. If life changes it can happen in a minute.
Also, bloggers have mentioned they are more aware if someone in a store is a bit “off” as it could be AD or something else. That in itself is worth the story. Happy Thursday, friends.
PS When I’m able to travel, I’m hopping on my broom and dropping by to meet as many as possible.
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What a blessing you are! I have often spoken those same words, “Why not me?” in our family situation.
I hope your broom will make it all the way to Florida.
Oh, how you make it to Tennessee. You are an inspiration to me. You have taught me so much and I do think I cherish each day more because of what you have shared. We are together almost 24/7. I have worked with him the last 17 years and then we moved the office home and I am his only employee…however it is nice to be apart every once in a while. You have taught me to truly cherish each day and make each day count and celebrate every day we have together. Blessings sweet Jean. Hugs…
Jean–I am so touched by your equanimity in the face of one of the cruelest diseases.
I marvel when people accept life altering situations.
A couple of years ago, our son received some personal news that had a major effect on him. When I offered my sympathy, his response was “it is what it is.” I was so touched by his bravery and personal courage.
I see those qualities in you.
I see much suffering but I do think being robbed of one’s mind over time is so very cruel and difficult. It is easier to compensate for the loss of say a leg, or a kidney, but all chronic illnesses take their toll on the patient and caregiver. Wayne is so fortunate to have your love and support.
Just catching up here. I had saved up 18 of your posts and read all together. Just wanted you to know that I’m here, sending hugs. At some points, I wonder how you do it but then I know the answer: Love.
Blessings and much love
Jeanne♥
I have hugged my spouse tighter everyday since I first found your blog. You make us all realize the importance of “in sickness and in health”.
I hope your broom makes it to NC!
You are truly awesome! I don’t think I’ve ever thought “why not us?” Maybe once when I was trying to accept our situation. But most of the time I’d be bemoaning the loss of our happy life before COPD. Hmmm, will have to give that one some thought.
Recognizing the gifts in a situation such as yours (and mine) is learning whatever we are here to learn. I think it helps too.
Hope you can fly to Quebec one of these days. Would love to meet my blogger friends one day. I also feel blogging is just a way of sharing our story, not a plea for sympathy. And the blogging community rocks!!
Point your broom to Texas and you’ve always got a place to stay and I promise we’ll treat you so many ways, one is bound to be good.
HUGS
I just put up a special sign by the garage…”Broom Parking Only”…just for you. If I could, I would send a limo to bring you here, or better yet, a horse and carriage — the kind a princess would ride in, or a queen. That is more befitting of you, my friend
Thinking of you with love, hugs, and prayers!
Trish
xoxoxoxo