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28th September
2009
written by JeanMac

He slept til 4pm and was ready for bed shortly after – I kept him up til 8pm.

All evening he stared at the wall, his look like someone trying to recall. Finally I asked if I could help him, was he wondering about something? Could I help him to remember? His returned gaze gave me shivers, his eyes void of life, no baby blues I’ve loved for years.

Washed him up and tucked him in – home care nurse will get him up at 11am – I’m grateful for those wonderful ladies.

(BTW, no more posting til I read each and every blog – I’m so sorry to have not since going. I get home by 3 so will try later this afternoon. Also, having issues with password protected blog so if I re-send all your invites, just chalk it up to my ineptitude on this computer!)

7 Comments

  1. 28/09/2009

    Hope his gaze will be more welcoming and warm today.

  2. 28/09/2009

    I love it when the aid comes to bath mom. Mom hates it. But one thing I don’t have to do.I hope you see those baby blues today.

  3. 28/09/2009

    Hi Jean – I’m glad to see you back posting, although I’m sorry to read about your scary encounter. I hope that you are feeling better now! I’ve been out of town for the past week, so I’m just catching up on the blogs myself!

  4. 28/09/2009

    Hi Jean,
    Oh.. so heartbreaking to see that disconnected/far-away look on the people we love so much.

    It’s good to hear that you have a home care nurse to help you …
    Your in my thoughts for a better day

  5. 29/09/2009

    Dear Jean,glad to see you back posting, I worry about you when there is no postings, but also realize you have your hands full. prayers for you, wayne and the man who hit you.
    have a wonderful peaceful day

  6. 29/09/2009

    Blessings my sweet friend
    Love and hugs and smiles♄

  7. 29/09/2009

    I’m glad you are back. I know about issues with computers! I’m sorry about Wayne – I know that it hurts.