24th November
2009
I’m sorry it took so long to post that Wayne had been admitted – I just couldn’t write the words.
Buddy was really confused the first week and would go downstairs, howling, calling. Made a sound like his tail was being pulled.
In the past, Buddy would go down, call for Wayne and the chase would be on. I guess he thought if he did it enough, Wayne would eventually appear.
Now, it appears Buddy is adjusting and no longer calling.
Thank you so much for you kind comments and prayer. It’s very difficult for Wayne right now and he is lonely – funny, I always sleep on his side of the bed and last night, smelled his pillow – couldn’t smell his scent which was both sad and good, I guess.
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Dearest Jean,
My heart breaks for you and for Wayne. You’re both in my prayers each day and I pray that peace will envelope both of you and carry you through the rest of this difficult journey.
HUGS
Jean–Usually I am a tough nut. I read your posts, understanding some of what you are going through–and I am clear-eyed. Not that I don’t sympathize–I do–but I am very internal in my emotions.
Well, today, reading your last two posts, I sit here with tears in my eyes.
I ache for you, wish I could drop by and take you out to lunch, and listen to you talk.
I too pray to God for PEACE for Wayne. And for you.
And also for Buddy–all God’s creatures.
(((Hugs)))
Oh, Jean… I’m just catching up. My heart breaks for you. How difficult this must be, no matter how much you knew that it was going to happen. (My prayer: Dear God, please give Jean peace!)
I pray that you have someone to talk to, or find someone to talk to,who will just sit and listen. My heart aches for you. This has to be so hard on you. You are a brave woman, no matter what you say. Blessings on your day.
Oh Jean…my heart breaks for you, Wayne and buddy!!….
I pray for each of you and the adjustment each of you are going through.
God be with you!!!
Love,
Dolores
P.S.
I hate Alzheimer’s!!!!
I feel for you. I remember the looks in my Mother’s eyes. I will be praying for peace for you both. I know this is such a hard time for you. Hugs to you….
So much has happened in a short period of time, but it sounds like you’ve begun to adjust and I’m glad to hear it. I know this must be one of the toughest times in your life, but things will get better.
Thinking of you.
You’ll both be making adjustments for awhile.
Your last sentence, really got me.
Hang in there dear Jean.
Hugs, and peace for you too.
I’ve nothing to add that hasn’t been said, Jean. ‘Just wanted you to know, I’m thinking of you and Wayne (and Buddy, too) tonight … asking that Peace surround you in a sweet, comforting embrace.
Jean, Buddy might like to sleep on some of Wayne’s clothing. That usually helps an animal to adjust, but if he is doing well, maybe it isn’t necessary. Could that help you too?
No need to say you’re sorry. You post when you can and whatever you need to post. There are no rules. We are all on your side Jean. Hugs and prayers. This must be the most difficult thing you’ve done so far.
Jean,
All our hearts feel your pain and sadness as we have seen this slow march into Wayne’s foggy path. Know that we are your strength in this difficult time to draw from as needed. Our prayers are with you and your family and over time a healing of sorts will begin.
Cherish the good days . . . endure the bad ones until the circle comes around again and I’ll leave you with this for Wayne . . .
Reading: from the Gospel of John 21:18-19
‘In all truth I tell you, when you were young you put on your own belt and walked where you liked; but when you grow old you will stretch out your hands, and somebody else will put a belt round you and take you where you would rather not go.’
God Bless Jean.
Ice
Peace be with you and Wayne. May God be with you in all ways!
I, too, am here catching up. I have such a lump in my throat.
You, Wayne, AND Buddy are in my prayers – by name.
When I have tough times and wonder how I will make it – I look back and remember how (God and) I have ridden over some rough bumps in the past. And how many times He has “carried” me.
I pray for peace for you as well.
Thinking of you,
~Mad(elyn) in Alabama
Jean,
I have been away more than here – taking care of my Mom. I am catching up on your blog today. My love, care and prayers are heading your way. I pray that God will give you the peace that you are praying for Wayne. love, Kathy
…just catching up as I race through your last few posts…and, with a heavy heart and tears in my eyes… I send much love and many hugs your way.
I continue to say that you are one incredible woman. Wayne was so lucky to have your love and companionship for so many years. I wish him the best as he gets cared for in his new “home away from home”.