4th July
2010
(Anyway, sorry, too difficult to even post lately – I am so sorry for my man.)
Today at lunch, Mighty Mouse asked if someone could tie her shoelaces. The care aides were busy serving the meals so I got down and tied her shoe – only one was undone. She smiled ever so sweetly, thanking me.
The Sgt. Major called out that she’s only doing it for attention. Tsk, tsk, such an attitude, I thought – then my eyes caught MM using one foot to work on the laces of the other to untie them! Guess the Major had her pegged:)
And it’s perfectly normal to do things for attention, when one is a bit lonely or scared. She needs the attention, whether it’s tying shoelaces or holding her hand for a few minutes.
Maybe Sgt. Major wants attention, too.
After a while, visiting a care facility, the residents become like family, don’t they? Some of Mom’s co-residents always looked for me, and chattered about their day to me. A couple sat with us for afternoon tea; neither of them had much to say, but they were happy to share the moment with us.
When I was no longer visiting, I often wondered about them. If it hadn’t been a 2-hour drive, I would have gone to say hello.
It’s good to hear that Wayne is so happy to see you! I’d love to see a video of him clapping his hands on your arrival.
Just wanted to send a big old hug your way ….
Sending hugs from here as well.
Hi Jean…… I’m so sorry your going through even harder times with Wayne.
Please know that you’re in my thoughts and prayers….
Mighty Mouse sounds like a cute little stinker….
Hugs,
I’m reading the past few posts catching up. Sorry Wayne is having such a hard time. Sending BIG hugs to you, Jean. (((Jean)))
Well, we all want attention – guess that never changes. sandie
Oh Jean..
Just sending hugs…..
So sorry for that pain you both are ‘in’…there is a huge awareness of loss communicated from Wayne lovingly through you in these recent posts…..
Thinking daily of you both, whether you can post or not..
Chris, UK
It was still nice of you tie her shoe. I hope tomorrow is a better day for you both.