“I’ll pay you $5.00 to open your eyes.”
I patted him our code, “I’ll pay you $10,00 to open your eyes and give me a hug.”
He smiled but never did open his eyes the whole time I was there. “I guess you’re tired today.” He answered he was.
The two care aides came at separate times telling Wayne it was dance time and Elvis would be the music. He nodded.
They left the door ajar so he would be able to hear it and be motivated to dance – he loves dancing.
I sat by his bed and soon as he spoke, he would fall into a deep sleep – I could tell from his breathing.
Held his hand and eventually left with hopes for a brighter day tomorrow.
(Wayne had been to an antique car show and luncheon out the day before – the nurses said he loved it but he’s worn right out from it.)
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That must be hard on you even if you understand it….
Oh…
I know that it is hard for you – sorry – but he probably was tired from the day before. Sandie
Brings back many memories for me…..feel for you!
Awwww, I hope tomorrow he has more energy.
Sending hugs
At least he smiled. Perhaps he knew he was playing a joke on you and fell asleep before he could tell you.
Oh dear Jean,
Feel your pain and losing beneath the words.But love that Wayne smiled as he received your shared loving ‘code’.Bitter sweet. Had you thought to post that ‘code’idea in Alzheimers care tips???Dear Dolores has a link to Plant city lady and friends who I think does just those kind of ‘tools’ that may help on this painful journey Love Chris in UK
Sounds to me like there’s some mighty sweet care givers looking out for Wayne…..YOU being number ONE……I hope he sleeps well tonight and your next visit is a good one!
Oh, I remember those days when sleep seemed so necessary to Elbert. Like he couldn’t keep his eyes open, even for me. I hope the next visit will be better for the both of you.