We have been through very difficult weeks but the last 6 days have been filled with joy and happiness.

It’s such a treat to see Wayne laugh and smile and “enjoy his own jokes”.

A year ago I gave away all his stuffed animals -they were large and wonderful but he no longer responded to them. Thought some child should have them so donated all of them.Just on a whim, I bought a medium sized bright yellow rabbit. He loved it.

After stroking it and loving it for an hour, it was lunch time.

I saw him striking the dining room table speaking – paying closer attention,I heard him “talking” to Buddy his cat.
“You’re a good boy,yes, you are. You’re a really good boy.”

Every night Wayne would stroke Buddy and talk to him before sending him to his blanket at the foot of the bed.

Broke my heart in a way and yet, maybe Wayne was comforted and did feel and see Buddy.

When I upload my pics, I’ll post Wayne’s picture of happiness!

PW’S (*$#!**)

So I haven’t been posting cause it’s been too difficult but finally decided to give it a try.

Unable to log in. Again, again.

Several attempts later I phone our older son, “Help!!!!”

He creates a new PW and it works – fancy that!

So tomorrow I will post providing I can log in:)

Angels and then Special Angels

All the staff who work on Wayne’s unit are angels but there are special angels among them.

One team (an LPN and care aide) can bathe Wayne so wonderfully that he does not require pre-med.

I stood outside the bathing room and listened – he was laughing and having a good time instead of being so stressed that I could not bare it.

They joke and give him stuff to “play with” in the water.

There was absolutely no resistance during the process until it was time to rinse his hair.

“Hey,, what’s going on. Hey, hey, no, no”.

“All done, Wayne.”

And it was over – – –

Ring a ding ding – – –

So Wayne has a lovely wedding band, yellow gold with 3 diamonds.

For years he wore it in the care home. Often wondered if he would lose it but things went well til November 2012.

He started taking it off and kind of “fiddling” with it. Care aides would find it in clothes or on the floor.

One day a kitchen worker heard a “ping” and Wayne’s ring flew out of his hand and landed in the stainless sink she was working at.

The staff gave it to me when I arrived and I decided to take it home. He seemed not to notice.

Now, over a year later, he is pulling on his ring finger til I fear he will do damage. I guess the answer is to buy him a cheap ring and save his finger!

Zhjeannie with a smile

Dad did it

Mom did it

My Sis does it

My Bro does it

Certain friends do it

Favorite cousin does it

Now, for the first time in knowing Wayne over 50 years and being married for over 48 of them, Wayne did it – once to me.

He was very sleepy resting in a recliner, covered in a warm blanket.

I got on my knees and told him I was “Jean, your wife.”

He smiled at me dreamily and said, “Zhjeannie.”

I nearly fell flat. Never heard him ever refer to me as Jeannie.

When I recounted this to my neighbor, she said he always referred to you as Jeannie to them! Who knew?